[buttonboy]

I am so sorry this is your story, we found out in the summer our 22yr old son has a cocaine addiction. It has been the worst few months of our lives. We bailed him out in June and he has just gone out and run up the same debt and more. A counsellor told us we had to be clear with him and we must no longer enable him to continue without taking responsibility, it’s awful but the only way. I think you are doing the right thing. It’s tough love but we are praying it works. I wish you well, no parent deserves this xx

[scoutyboy]

Thanks for your reply buttonboy. If only they could see what they are doing to the people that love them, as their “friends” are nowhere to be seen when it all goes wrong. Well the outcome was he was remanded, he has a great lawyer however he was extremely worried about him going to jail. He says he will not be contacting us. x

[icarus-trust]

Hi Scoutyboy,

I’m very sorry to read your story. Dealing with your son’s addiction and having to make the decision not to contact him must have been so very hard for you.

If you feel that you or your partner would like would like some support for yourselves, please contact us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support for those that are dealing with the impact of a family member’s addictive. We have trained people who have a lot of experience and would understand what you have been going through. If you think that talking to one of them would help, please get in touch.

You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org

All the best to you.

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