Some people love to place blame on others, and also jump on the band wagon! Sod them. How can someone else’s behaviour be anyone elses fault other than the person behaving! Makes no sense be because it’s all BS.
We are not responsible for anyone’s behaviour, we are only responsible for the way we react!
Blaming others is a typical example of someone not accepting personal responsibility! Let’s say for arguments sake you did something which he didn’t like or agree with etc by something you said or did right…. Did you get the drink or whatever and open his mouth and shove it down his throat? Nah you didn’t! Anything else is ridiculous!
Let them get on with it and you keep true to yourself!