Hi Tinkerbell,
I am so sorry to read your post and the affect your son’s addiction has had on your family,particularly your younger son, and can imagine the heartbreak it has caused you.
I was wondering if you would like to talk to someone at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people, like yourself, living with the impact of a loved ones’s addiction. We have experienced, trained volunteers who you would understand what you are going through. Talking with one of them may help you to see the way ahead.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps.Good luck.