[daisy12]

My partner has ended things repeatedly over what I deem minor things that be worked through. He causes rows to disappear (maybe to score to get smashed on booze) then blames me twists things emotional hurricane and then ends things stonewalls me, says some nasty and hurtful things. He’s blocked me previously off everything as then unblocked me. Then a few days later he’ll apologise or sometimes doesn’t cause I end up chasing him and trying to salvage the relationship.

But I think this is wasted effort this time. I apologised for calling out he needed help. He said that’s final straw and that not to contact him again. He collected his things (not all) and said not to contact him. I apologised via message. I’ve heard nothing . I love him and no he’s struggling and he pushes people away. But feel this time I shouldn’t chase him as every time I do I feel like maybe he pity me and gets back with me or out of habit and not that he truly wants to. He says he loves me but his actions speak differently. When it’s good it’s good. When it’s bad it’s bad and it’s been pretty bad for weeks.

Any advice on what how to handle this latest break up and what to do going forward if he comes back?

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