[louise8608]

Please I just can’t do this any more partner is off and on heroin all the time he stays off a few days he’s rough sleeps does nothing etc I understand then back to it again! I cannot go on any more it’s been two years off this hell, every thing I say he says all the right stuff but no action to back up guilt trips me that he won’t get better with out me etc but I have children from my previous relationship and a 2 year old with him to think about first and this is like the worst nightmare he’s lying he goes shop and don’t return for hours moods are horrendous he doesn’t seem to care at all! I ask him to leave he won’t go what can I do how can I sort this out it’s so hard

[constantlyworried]

Kick him out. Put your children first. Tell him if he doesn’t quit or go and speak to his doctor if he can’t quit by himself. Tell him if he isn’t prepared to do this for the sake of his child and your other children then he cannot live with you and that you are not prepared to put the children through hell living his addiction. It will be very hard but you can do it. Lock him out next time he goes off on one. Don’t let him in and call the police if he won’t leave you alone. He will never get help or stop if you let him carry on doing what he wants and coming back to you making empty promises. Hope you have good support from family and friends who can help you with your situation. Be strong

[k22]

He hasn’t got any respect for himself so they won’t be many for you. Trust get rid I know it sounds harsh but it probably won’t change and if it does I’m sure it will be a very long upsetting energy draining process. There is certain things if life a person shouldn’t and hasn’t got to put up with and any form of addiction is up there and if the other person hasn’t any sign of even trying to change cut it off end it move on before you suffer even more for even longer.

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