Hi there, I feel for you and your pain… so much. I am the widow of an alcoholic and he was my Son’s father. So I know all about this…
Drinking 2 bottles of wine a night is not normal, this is alcoholism, it will get progressively worse. You and your children don’t deserve to live with this man.
He will never stop. You must speak your truth…don’t hide it from family and friends. Better to upturn the home and ultimately live peacefully somewhere else. Even if this means that he will go into free fall…Only he can change…but it’s almost certain that he won’t. Why does he have the right to ruin 3 lives? At the moment he’s functioning, but it will worsen. If you need to discuss any of the real horrors as well ( I know about this ), you can with me….My heart goes out to you…I’m a survivor. Please put your own health and your children’s well being first.