[sad-and-tired]

all I can say is get advice from places like open road. Most people have told me use tough love, don’t give money etc. I wish it had clicked with me earlier but it didn’t. Good luck

[meg11]

Thank you for the comment. At the moment I am trying tough love, but it’s not easy, it’s feels like waiting to see who will be first to give in. Good luck to you and your son. Nobody knows how difficult it is until they are faced with these problems.x

[sad-and-tired]

its not easy to be hard on your child, its natural to want to protect. God I know that so well, but I wont give money now, he is living with me so I know he is eating and where he is which is something. I wont help with his debts anymore because it doesn’t help long term just gives him more cash to use on what he wants. you are right no one knows the worry and hell drugs cause until they have been there. xx stay strong

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