[sunny77]

Honey , if you read my thread you will see I did the same thing.

They won’t see it, their brain is rewired so that can’t. Cocaine now owns his mind , sadly you are your children won’t even come into his thoughts . You may get the odd text of “ what have I done , I am so sorry “ mostly when high or on a come down but that will be followed by blame shifting anger and sadly abuse .

You did the right thing for you & your children. You won’t trust him again , addicts are always addicts , they can be addicts in recovery and lead good lives again if they get help & stay on the right path but there is no … I use to be an addict .

Sending you love & know the community is here to help . Xx

[belle80]

Thank you so much.

I’ve never felt so alone and guilty for making the right decision for my children and my sanity

Since my post I have found out it’s far worse than what it thought had been

I just can’t believe he’s lied so much and has been borrowing money from friends and has been taking it in our home, I’m beyond annoyed.

I hope for his sake he gets help and realises what he has lost

Going through the posts on here it is a comfort to see I’m not alone, but so sad at the same time how many people are affected by this.

Addiction ruins so many families

X

[sunny77]

It does honey, it’s hard to understand especially when like us you just can’t see the attraction in doing something that is ruining your health & life .

I just don’t have an addictive personality , so I had to do a lot of research to understand it. And I’m glad I did, or I would have just thought that this was something that would pass .

Just focus on you, and your children and do what’s right for them which is exactly what you are doing now . The hardest thing to do is walk away from somebody you love because it’s the right thing for them and you .

Xxx

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