[moonlight]

My partner was addicted to opium exactly same , money was missing, mistake after mistakes and lies are worse i agree, but i did shout at him i told him i know about his addiction and talk to his family , and pray every night day so he can admit and decide to be sober so a week ago he said he want his normal life back as i tried to be patient and be friend with him, now his is away for 2 weeks for recovery, you are not selfish as you have to be strong for your children and think about yourself but in my experience shouting leaving relationship does not help ,

[exhaustedwife]

Its so so hard. I feel so destroyed. I don’t know who I am anymore. Yet we are the ones who are expected to just pick up the pieces and carry on.

[moonlight]

Exactly put plan together if this way he choose rather than you and his children then let me go , it is hard i know and understand, before my partner decided i put timeline for our relationship 6 month if he changed and chose me then ok otherwise i have to save myself a least one of us is been saved now you two children.

[exhaustedwife]

The relationship is over unfortunately. I love him and have supported him for 10 years. I can’t can’t it anymore. I just need some answers for when he went missing and what he was doing etc.. I need to be able to have closure to move on. X

I hope things with your partner work out and he makes the right choice. X

[moonlight]

Oh ok then 10 years alot of time , thank , i am happy that he choose me over drug and he decided to sort him self for better future for both of us. X i wish you recover soon and get stronger day by day focus on your children you have them and thier love x

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