Hey, how are things for you now? Unfortunately this drug changes people characters so much that they become unrecognizable. It’s awful and I’m sorry you are all having to go through this, especially with what’s going on In the world right now.
Sadly tho, the drug will always come first! Family rarely wins, unless he uses that as an external motivator to get help. In other words he has to want help. Sometimes that can takes years. The pull of that drug is just to powerful and he would require support from professionals.
The only thing I can suggest is to get in contact with Al Anon – they’re a service which helps families that are associated with someone taking substances. They helped me to “take a step back” and focus on myself, because believe me your husband will pull you down into their chaos.
Cocaine is a destructive drug which is the road to ruin. It absolutely ruined my family and I’m still picking up the pieces.
I’m here if you need to talk