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My husband has put me and our children through hell this past year.
Since the beginning of december last year he has gone missing for days at a time, not answering calls or replying to messages. He says he has been doing cocaine these times. He goes missing roughly every 3 weeks.
He then comes home and does nothing but lope about for days , he then is quite loving, then stressed, then goes missing again.
I cant take it any more. Im depressed and anxious all of the time, i dont feel like i want to live any more. Ive got nothing to offer. My poor children are so hurt by their dads behaviour. He keeps saying he will get help, makes a half hearted attempt, then gives up and goes missing again..
It feels like emotional abuse, it feels like everything is falling down around me.
He has lost his job, hes not making any attempt at getting another one.
I know i have to kick him out
Im just so sad..20 years together and 2 kids. Its so sad.
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Hi Emilwah,
Welcome to the Forum, hopefully you will find the answers you are looking for and really deserve.
I am the Mum of an addict, cocaine and alcohol, and had put up with it for 10 years until he realised he needed help. Only they can help themselves when they are ready.
Your life and your children’s life sounds like hell and this I’m afraid is what cocaine does. I’m sure you know that you all deserve better, but breaking the cycle is the hardest thing of all especially if you love them as we all do.
How can he afford cocaine if he has lost his job? It is a very expensive drug and very evil.
Read through some of the stories on the Forum, there are many people in the same situation, but by sharing your story you have reached out to the right place. I know I felt so much better after finding this and being able to share with people going through the same thing.
The most important thing is that you look after yourself and your children, and hopefully your Husband will seek some advice and try and get some help.
Keep in touch on the Forum, it’s always good to share on here.
Take care.
Dx
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