[rologirl21]

Sorry that should read he don’t socialise after work lol and that he’s not the type to go missing for days. He’s a hard working guy in with the wrong crowd at work

[eggnchips99]

That sounds exactly like my husband 🙁

[tg1613]

Signs to show he’s addicted is by the amount he does and how often, ask him when he’s sober and try open up with him. I’m trying to recover at the moment as I was doing £30 worth 5 evenings a week. I’m going doctors tomorrow to get a plan and help written out etc as I’ve also put my relationship of 7yrs on the line. She notices when I’m on it and can tell, and I’ve been addicted for past year and half. But signs he’s on it is his mouth, probably jaw moving abit if he’s done a fair bit, sweating, gets hot quick, starts doing things he wouldn’t normally do i.e when Both watching film together he gets up does washing up or tidies up in a different room to you, blows his nose a lot etc it’s very hard to come clean off cocaine but tell him to go to his doctor to admit he’s an addict, that’s what I’m doing tomorrow so I can finally kick it out for good

[rologirl21]

Thank you for your reply.

Yes I definitely notice when he’s on it, the sweating, agitated, pupils, blowing nose.

He’s been doing it 7-8 months which makes sense to when we started as our relationship became strained etc

Since posting this he’s not touched it in-fact he’s been the guy I remember nice, helpful and loving.

I been testing him every 3 days and they all been negative.

I think by me finding out was what he wanted. He loves me I know that and agreed to online meeting, fitted a tracker etc

Maybe I caught him at the right time before the addiction took a hold.

He said he joined dating etc when we split while he was on coke I checked all the apps and the dates do tie in.

I’m no angel when we split up so I’m happy to move forward from all that nonsense cause i think when we’re depressed people do look for attention etc

It’s really good your going to the doctors as it’s not fair on you or your partner.

This drug playing with the mind and eventually will take over and until you reach rock bottom it maybe to late.

Your partner will not put up with it she will become more distant and eventually move on from you.

Get her to test you and tell her you need help.

Honestly Is the best policy.

Remember best things in life are FREE x

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