[taylor]

My husband takes cocaine. No everyday but every so often he will go on a binge and he will end up going to escorts. Our normal day to day life is fine. It is when he does this that it breaks me down. I don’t know what to do and I have nobody to talk to.

[pickles]

I’m not sure what to advise you here only that it isnt right to go off with escorts not only that but diseases too. If this is the type of life hes chasing it wont get better. It starts as now and again but slowly creeps into week nights and days etc. It was only that to be told i wouldnt survive much longer at the amount of weight i had lost and well i ruined my family life my husband eventually left as he turned a blind eye saying he never knew! he did as occassionally he got it in the past. So look after yourself do not accept him going to escorts that is wrong and not fair on you.

[icarus-trust]

Hi Taylor,
I am so sorry to read your post and to see that you don’t have any one who you can talk with. I hope you will contact The Icarus Trust because we are a charity that has been set up to provide support for people like yourself having to deal with your husband’s addiction.
Talking with one of our experienced and trained people might be supportive for you and help you to find a way ahead.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck. I hope that you can find some help.

[pickles]

re taylor: i’m not one to judge anyone far from it i’m not i just know how much you must be hurting and hope he realises before its too late. I expect he has no idea like i didnt, i didnt care i just cared about me why i dont know i dont i only know it wasnt a choice to say yes or no i just became awfully dependant on it when it started as only on a night out then it gets into you such a awful thing it really is i dont wish it upon anyone. If i didnt have children in school i would stand up and talk out loud about this as i no it will only get worse with what they mix it with these days. I really have no idea of any of it as it comes under different names etc nowdays. But it doesnt mean you cant change i have i seriously have and it makes me shudder and worry about my own children. I do get more days where i’m so unhappy and that is purely about relatives etc reminding me and not actually saying well done you how youve changed your life around. That i’m aftaid will never happen too many people in this world are too judgemental.

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