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Cocaine is the devil drug. It completely changes a person. I understand the Betrayal, lies as it’s constant. It’s relentless. I doubt anyone can tell you how to take things forward as that’s your decision alone.
Al Anon is a good support system for families affected by substances.
In my own experience with my now ex (of 22 years) I chose to leave. It nearly destroyed me, actually I think it did and six months down the line I am still recovering and will probably be scarred for life.
My ex was a loyal loving family man that turned into a monster on this drug. I don’t even recognize him anymore. No emotions, no respect, no moral compass and pure nastiness and selfishness.
They all say they get help and I hope he does but I would not give too many chances like I did. I ended up being blamed for everything in the end.
If they genuinely want to get help then they would and they can if they truly want too.
He has lost his mother and that is sad but it’s still not an excuse as he is avoiding pain – pain doesn’t go away long term. It’s an unhealthy way of coping with lifes difficulties.
Life isn’t without problems so I’m unsure what he is saying here? “When the going get tough I will use cocaine”? Nah sod that!!
Sorry you’re another family that is going thru this. I hate cocaine and everything about it. It destroys people.
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