He has been drinking for 3 years now. Just recently disclosed his cocaine use! I had suspicion for years now. He says he does not use everyday. But recently he started to act paranoid and violent(verbally), He says i’m the drug user! He says i do drugs around our 1 year old. He now wants to control me. I got a drug test obviously right after his claims.. and came back NEG! i don’t even drink or smoke! i had a talk with him, he says he will stop, but today he was acting weird. like high. Don’t know what to do! need to vent! thanks god i am stay home mother and i am with my baby all day! he use to be a different person. we been together for 13 years and married 3. he was charming respectful and loving, now i dont know if he will ever change! he acts normal (like before) when he is not drinking or on drugs. he says he wants to change but i don’t see progress.