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Hi there,

I’m in need of some help/ support. I’ve known my husband for 3 years and we’ve been married for about 1.5years. When I had first met him he was sober for 3 years. 1 moth before our wedding he relapsed and drank, the bender lasted around 2 weeks. He was able to stay sober for around 5 months and then relapsed again because of very intense family issues. Recently within the last month he’s relapsed twice and i don’t know how to help him. It’s severely affected my mental health and I really want to believe that he will be able to fight/ battle this disease. I just don’t know if i’m being naive or being too gullable. I’m so confused with my thought and emotions. I don’t know if I should leave him… But something in me tells me that he can stay sober but it will be an intense fight for him. Has everyone been in this position? How have you been able to deal with it?

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