So sorry to read your post and see what you are going through due to your husband’s addiction and how it’s affecting your health.
I work for a charity called Icarus Trust that provides support for people going through what you are, having to deal with addiction in their family. If you contact us you would be put in touch with one of our Family Friends who are well trained and very experienced. May be talking with one of them will help you to know what to do next.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.