It’s been 3 weeks since I shared my first chat and in that time my husband has still drank but on two occasions he has behaved in a aggressive manner and been vile ! My kids have witnessed both times and have been left upset and my daughter pointed out how my response was more concerning , apparently I was fearful and tried to play down the situation and begged her to not say anything! ( She is 20 ) its so lonely and painful , I seem to give empty threats , I don’t know what else to do .