I can see the patterns. How do I break them?

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    • #9961
      icarus-trust
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      How very sad it is to read your post but thank you for writing your situation so eloquently. This must reflect how many people feel having to cope with the addictions of a partner.
      If it would help to talk with people who understand, please contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support for people who are affected by a loved one’s addictions. May be talking to one of our experienced trained volunteers will help you to find a way forward.
      You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
      All the best to you.

    • #9968
      brokenheart
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      Whilst it is good to know that I am not the only one living this hell, it is also scary how familiar this post sounded, except there was no excuse, it wasn’t the job, the kids, it just was. How do you break the patterns though? I moved out with our son and the 2 dogs in the New Year and am now reliant on a friend’s generosity whilst he is living in our 4 bed house, unwilling to make any changes, or any decisions about how we can move on. I made the break and nothing has changed. I wish he could stop and we could be happy again.

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