[chezza123]

This sounds very familiar to what Ihave been and still am going through. I’m coming to the conclusion that things will never change. I might get the odd month he behaves but then I’m on pins leading up to the next day pay. It is beginning to affect me emotionally and financially as everything falls on me running the house paying bills running a car I have nothing left financially due to his wrecked ness with money I am being blamed for his episodes and I start to feel there is more for me than this when the promises to change are false. I don’t know if this is like you and I wish I had the answer but I don’t I am getting incredibly close to calling time. Hope u are ok

[sb2020]

Yes it’s just the same, he doesn’t work, he gets a little benefit but spends more than he gets on drugs. When I’m at work I know he’s doing coke and crack. I am emotionally drained, financially exhausted but it’s the lies more than anything, if I confront him he denies everything, turns everything on me, makes out I’m crazy. When he’s not on it he’s so loving and thoughtful but I can’t do this jackal and hyde thing anymore. He’s not going to stop I know that, truth is i don’t think he wants to. Hope you are ok.

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