[lemminaid]

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[danman83]

Hey , hope your ok. Its a really sad story this.. im doing my best to stop taking coke and im dreadin my kids finding out about it.

Me and my partner cheated on each other and it brought nothing but arguments and its not nice on the kids at all.

All id suggest is, if your mum and dad are not willing to sort themselfs out. Think of yourself , work hard and get a good education. Be proud of yourself. And you and your sister help each other out.

Stay away from the coke please , your young and have your whole life ahead of you. I wish i was your age.

Do you worry about your sister while your at uni?

[poppy10]

Hi , this is a lot for you to take on at such a young age. I think you need to talk to someone and get sone support,

Is there a drug support service in your area or at your uni?

It sounds like you and your sister have a lot to deal with and you are both at an impressionable age.

Get some support for yourselves. Good luck x

[trainer28]

I’m sorry to read what you are both going through at such a young age, this would be so difficult for an adult to deal with and it sounds like you are mature and want better for you and your sister so that’s already an amazing positive step.

Neither of you have to be alone in this. You should definitely seek out support for you and your sister from a drugs and alcohol service. There will be supportive adults there who can point you in the right direction and give you some practical advice.

It’s hard to deal with at the moment but in years to come this will make you the best parent because of the mistakes they have made and are making.

All the best

[cmxx]

Dear Lemminaid,

Well done for posting on this forum, and recognising that you and your sister deserve support. It is a really good idea to find out what is available in your local services, which you can do using the service finder map on Adam’s home page.

For specialist, confidential emotional support and practical advice you can call the NACOA helpline on 0800 358 3456. NACOA is the national association for children of alcoholics and their helpline is a safe place where you can talk about things that are going on for you and how you are feeling.

Very best wishes,

Clara x

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