[moles]

Hi all

My husband is a addict to cocaine, the last 2 weekends he has gone n stayed out over night which is very out of character, long story short, he inherited quite a bit of money about 2 months ago as his mother passed away last October, the money has nearly gone he has not worked since last year all he does is sit at home while I’m at work doing cocaine on his own. We have been together for 4.5 years. Iv had to go on anti depression tablets due to the fact of what he has been like n doing. Out of drugs he is so nice but he is a total monster on drugs n has been now for a long time, he blames everything on me n calls me terrible names yelling abuse at me all the time.he has lost so much weight n people are asking me if he is ok, I’m so ashamed, I just don’t know what to do I love him n know deep down he is a good man but while he keeps taking this drug he is a monster.

[lindyloo]

Hi Moles

Thank you for sharing your story with us. I’m so sorry to hear of the situation with your husband.

If you’ve read the other stories on this forum you will see that you’re not alone. We all know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of someone with an addiction.

This horrible illness turns them into a lying, manipulating, paranoid, selfish person. It consumes them and they will suck you dry and leave you feeling exhausted.

They of course are completely to blame, but will never admit it. It’s part of their guilt i think.

Read the other stories, some will give advice and support , as we have all been in the situation.

I hope you get the help and support you need. I wish you well and God bless. Lx

[danman83]

Hope your OK, I’m the same as your husband and I really want to stop doing it. It’s just really hard.

Has he said he wants to stop and get help?

[moles]

Hi, he blames it all on me, he come home yesterday n says he hasn’t done it for 4 days, I’m ok thank you, I’m getting stronger now n won’t be putting up with it much longer I’m literally on the verge of telling him to go for good. I’ve taken my wedding ring off that’s how much he has pushed me away. I feel Iv done everything I can to help him. He is such a kind lovely man when he is normal. I hope you can get help n stop, this has caused my family so much pain n heartache.

[danman83]

To be honest you do need to think of yourself as that’s what an addict does. If he’s not willing to try and stop and prove to you he’s trying there is no point.

[moles]

I think you are right, done the off again tonight, after I said about his sniffing is getting me down. No help for some people

[rob30]

Hi, I know your pain, my husband changes so much when he does that stuff & he just wants me to pleasure him all the time & if I say no he gets mean but this is every day now, he won’t put a movie on now unless it has sex in it

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