[staciie17]

 
<p style=”margin: 0px 0px 1rem; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; color: #183264; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 18px; padding: 0px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; word-wrap: break-word; caret-color: #183264; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;”>Do I just leave my cocaine addict  ?</p>
<p style=”margin: 0px; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; color: #183264; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 18px; padding: 0px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; word-wrap: break-word; caret-color: #183264; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; text-align: left;”>I don’t know what to do ?
Im raising 3 children alone ,for the last 3 years I’ve been struggling with my now ex partner being a addict ? He lives at his moms house while I live in our brought home with the children , last March me and his family sent him to rehab he used on the first day out , went to meeting after but used straight away , he’s ok in the day he either sleeps or works but nights are a nightmare he’s keeping up his  mom txting me like are you in the middle of the night . He comes to the home address locks the doors and drives off , we are now financially struggling , I’m off work due to stress every time he comes I have anxiety attacks as I don’t know if he’s going to be off his head , I’m open with my children about his addiction . I’ve tried mediation I’ve tried driving him to meetings , I just want to be happy , we have a 1 1/2 year old that he never changed or spent more than 5 hours with in a week . What do I do ? Will this end ?his now on his 6th job due to driving . I’m scared If I leave he won’t be safe ? My kids could loose there dad for goo??</p>

[thistim3]

Awful that you are going through this.  Despite all of it –  still it is possible to be happy.  The stories here will help you find your way.  Kids grow so fast and they need you to be strong and happy., Try to take the focus off him (he has to sort himself out on his own) and focus instead on your kids and yourself.  I have such great memories with my kids – when my husband was at his worst. I believe that the normalcy that my kids and I were living everyday helped my husband get off and stay off the evil drug cocaine.  Nar-anon is a great place for support as well.

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