[mrsfaz]

Hi ya . Firstly I’d like to say how hard this must be for you . Your husband is in denial. You are no longer turning a blind eye . Well done you . My husband is an addict so I understand the emotional ties .

Maybe the best way is to tell him straight . Tell him you and everyone else knows what he is . Explain to him the ramifications from a health point of you . Do not forget to tell him you love him . The reason he hides his use is .. if he was proud he would do it openly .

Tell his family . You are enabling him to continue whilst keeping this big secret . Explain to them succinctly if they want to help you would welcome any support .

Leave leaflets on cocain use , it’s affects and helpline numbers in his secret place .

I wish I had this support my in-laws live in the Middle East . I am on my own .,

You have it pretty much sewn up . Your a smart cookie . You can do this .

Take care

[betsyhaggis]

Thank you. Not feeling that strong. Awful anxiety in approaching this as he denies it. It’s a terrible cycle I feel I’m stuck in and have no control. ????

[desperate]

Betsyhaggis I feel for you. I know the fear and anxiety approach. The lies the denial. Do you feel the hate and say awful things then the regret and guilt of saying horrible things. It’s never ending. I guess I am approaching it in the wrong way. I have tried the right way and that did not work. If you find an answer which there probably isn’t let me know please. All I can say is your a brave strong woman to still be there. Bless you

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