[dana]

Hello there .

As many of you I have a husband addicted to cocaine .

I found out 10 months ago ,right after I gave birth .

Also that he spent all the savings ,around 10 k . and later on I found out about the debt ,to bank friends and anyone he knows .All of this months a lot of things happened,he stole from my account,my mom’s and I continued to pay till now his share .He always promised that he will give it back to me when he will be done with the debts but till this day it’s just empty promises.

I also called police once and he got arrested but i wanted to give him a chance and maybe he will realise that things are serious .

He is absent in my life and doesn’t help with baby .His hygiene changed a lot and he is just emotionless.

It’s a month already that he sleeps on a mattress in baby’s room and just drinks beer and doesn’t care .

At this point I don’t have any hope anymore ,and I understand that I cannot help ,but I’m just enabling his addiction.

And I’m just the nagging wife

If I were alone I would leave but I live with my mom and baby .

What can I do to make him leave ? Who can help me ?

He laughed into my face and said to call police .

[chloz]

It’s shitty but until he will help himself you cant help him. He has to see his problem and want to change. There is nothing that can be done for him until then. But y oh can sure as shit do something for yourself. Limit access to yourself and kids. No access when he is on drugs. At All. D not en Anable him

Alanon had a great online video. Google “alanon family drug addicts online”

This was very helpful for our family.

[chloz]

Oh and call the police to get him out of that house. Untill he does better he can’t be camping next to your baby at your m mums. You all deserve better

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