i am not used to this forum, but i went had it with my brother and yet now my son is a cannabis addict ,i am a single working mom yet he has stole thousands , from my house, i have have been in despair and cried so much ,i feel like its my fault , my one child is disabled and they told me they would take my kids away ! honestly we feel the brunt ,but if u want just to voice off ring me my whole family had such a hard time and my mother had a stroke thru the stress and and 3 strokes but if u want to talk ring me and i will def ring you back, people look down on children with addictions i dont ever blame myself but guilt is hard ,my phone number just e mail me on def stupid email but i will ring you . i am in the same boat as you and its so hard but i honestly understand . hope to hear from you soon and all the best