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Hey Rolty123. Sad to hear about your situation.
Truth is he won’t change unless there are consequences it seems. Your love, as well intended as it is creates a safe space for your hubby to selfishly behave the way he does. As long as he feels safe with you around he’ll continue.
None of this is your fault, always always remember this. Until he sees the error of his ways he won’t change. He’ll most likely blame you for the reason why he drinks which is completely irrational. All mind inducing substances (alcohol being one) will numb his emotions.
You don’t deserve this life but if he knows you’ll always pick up the pieces then the vicious circle will continue.
It’s hard to say but he needs consequence to make a change. What that looks like is not for me to decide.
Keep smiling as hard as it may seem…
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