[sk]

follow your gut feeling all the things you have described almost certainly points out that he is using again. its heart breaking and i feel your pain. the reason he is angry when you confront him is because you are right with what you are saying and he does’nt want to admit it to hiself. have you noticed money going missing or anything like that because again another sign. it is hard being in love with a addict but you have to think of yourself and your children. Please go with your gut feeling you also have the evidence my partner hid his foil in his socks bit stupid when it was me who did the washing. they do become very secretive and go missing i also found this with my partner. please look after yourself addicts are selfish and have a real way of making you feel guilty for suspecting what is true.

[sk]

read the post tragically sad on this site i have been talking to kelly on here and she is amazing her words of advice has helped me no end i am stronger because of her please please please read it xxx

[icarus-trust]

Hi Maryjoan,
I can see that your husband’s drinking is really hard for you to come to terms with, and it often helps to talk through your worries and feelings with people that have had similar experiences. I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust which tries to support people like yourself who are dealing with a loved one’s addiction. If you contact us you could be put in touch with one of our ‘Family Friends’. These are experienced trained volunteers who would understand the issues you are facing. Talking with one of these might help you to find a way ahead as well as signpost other services that might help your husband.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that you will find this helpful. Good luck.

[icarus_trust]

Reading your post is heart-breaking, you’ve got so much to deal with, let a lone having to look after another person. It is a lot for anyone to have to deal with.

I work for a charitable organisation which provides help with a ‘friend’ and are extremely easy to talk to, if you still need it. You can simply register on the website http://www.icarustrust.co.uk/contact/ or email us at help@icarustrust.org.

I really hope things start to pick up for you very soon! We wish you the best of luck.

[desperado]

Thankyou for commenting…it a situation I never thought I would be in..neither does anyone else on here….so frustrating knowing that if I am right (and Im almost certain) he has allowed himself back into the ‘fold’ of this awful drug and not even his children top it! I have tried to do so much research into this demon drug, trying to find out why?? Sk I guess we are in the same boat….life sucks at times..especially when you fall in love with an addict!

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