[evie10]

Messedup84, you sound remorseful which is a big plus. I’d suggest you end the relationship with the new girl if you don’t love her. You can still be there for the baby 100% but it’s not fair on her if you stick around under false pretenses. I’d also suggest that you tell your ex before she hears it from someone else. If there is any chance of you getting that relationship back you need to be totally honest with her

[messedup84]

My ex already knows I told her myself before anyone else did. I just don’t want to make her stressed now she’s pregnant even though I don’t love or want to be with her. I’ve just completely messed my life with because I was to busy getting high and out drugs first before my old relationship when she did everything she could to help me and I didn’t see it. But I don’t think she would ever forgive me for having another child to someone else. I hate my life without her she was all I’ve never known. We didn’t have kids of our own because she had fertility problems and I couldn’t help save money for ivf and she suffered massively with my drug taking and now I’m depressed without her.

[messedup84]

Also I forgot to add she kicked me out and I blamed her for me getting with someone else which is totally wrong of me.I just wish I’d put more effort in and she would have let me home and non of this would have happened! I totally regret everything with the new girl and I’m totally living with the consequences

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