[angelfire]

I’m in a relationship for 4 years with a recovering addict. He was newly clean.

He’s had ALOT of slips thru the years and I’m sure there’s WAY more then I caught him up in. But number 1 I don’t know how to deal with the disappointment and lying that he wasn’t to stop abd hates himself as soon as he does it. At first I got mad and angry then I tried understanding ya know bad work environment the annnivesary of parents death. Then I thought wait I have to same issues and I’m not sneaking behind your back and doing drugs. And with all his lying comes along the fact he watches and jacked off to porn ALL the time when we first started dating he would sext and talk to other males he said that was part of when he was on meth. Which as far as I know has stopped but he lies so much that he believes his own lies. What do I do to help my relationship I know I’m not the best communicater but I just don’t know what to do cause I feel he has had another slip but if I “ can’t prove it” he doesn’t want to hear about it

I’m SO SORRY TO RAMBEL JUST DONT HAVE ANYONE TO TALK TO AND FEEL I REALLY NEED SUPPORT OR SOMETHING THANK YOU FOR READING

[aries]

Your not alone. I’m struggling with this too.

[esta]

You are letting out all your despair

Don’t spend the rest of your life in a guessing game

[icarus-trust]

I’m so sorry to read your story . You are not rambling and am glad you have posted as you will get a lot of support from this forum.

If you would like some more help please contact us at Icarus Trust as we are a charity that offers support to people dealing with addiction in their family. We have trained and experienced people called Family Friends that you could talk with and they will understand what you are going through.

You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org

All the best.

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