[kel1]

Sorry to hear what you’re going through. I’d suggest having a read on here which may give you some insight from others (wives/partners etc). Everyone is different, and every relationship is different, however that drug cocaine is the devil drug and from what I know of it and in my own experience it just literally destroys people and their families!

I went through hell! Actual hell and ended up having a break down trying to support/stick with an addict (cocaine). They turn into monsters! If he wants to get help and change then good for him and you, and I hope it lasts! But he’d need to be in some sort of robust programme for support! Cravings for that drug is ridiculous!

Have a read up about it – also some good information on YouTube about the affects of cocaine etc.

Best of luck and take care because you’re gonna need it.

[daniela]

I’m in a similar situation also. Was giving drug tests for a couple months that my partner always failed. He would make promises to quit, which seemed to do the opposite. He’s staying with family now because I told him I can’t live in the same house as him when he’s doing drugs.

I think it’s good to set your own boundaries in order to keep yourself from going crazy. At the end of the day, we’re going crazy over someone else’s actions. It’s like we’re so focused on their life, that we forget to focus on our own.

No idea if sticking around is the right answer, but I guess there’s always hope that things might get better.

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