Sick of being blamed for the ex being on drugs, being put down by him and his family because I don’t let him see the kids when he feels like it I’ve asked him to come numerous times and he’s let them down after messing up by taking the drugs. Understanding he’s a addict but also he needs to understand my reasons for not letting him see the kids whilst he’s on them and all I ask is for him to try get clean and then he can be the father. Is this wrong of me?! Because I’m getting abuse for it by all his family and himself and I can’t cope anymore.