My lovely I am just about to do the same thing. My husband has a big problem with cocaine and alcohol. I have found out in the last 6 months that the cocaine has been an issue gor many years and it appears it was not a secret to many people. I can’t take any more lies or deceit. I have no doubt made it worse by not kicking up over unpaid bills and financial contributions to our children or our house/lives. Or the non-parenting of our children. I am filing for divorce to protect my children and me. I really can’t take any more.
Have you seen tge documentary on the BBC?? It does show things from both perspectives, but, the addict needs to recognise that they have a problem and they want help? I may have it wrong.
Good luck, and from what I have read here over tge last 6 months is that you have to protect yourself, because no-one else will xxx