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April 13, 2014 at 9:37 pm #8261cant-take-no-moreParticipant
Switch your phone off, lock your door and let him get on with it…Whilst you continue to enable him, you will continue to get the abuse….Its unfair that your little one has to be party to his behaviour and cruel words….I know only too well, as my little one has heard stuff too….DONT give in, and stop phoning him…..Its hard, very hard, but most people who wnat to end it, dont text or tell anyone….what he is doing is manipulating…your son , my son and other parents sons and daughters on drugs all do it……cause they know it hits your heart and you may cave in and give them what they want…DONT…….Massive hugs hunni, sending you lots of strength and luv xxxxxx
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April 13, 2014 at 9:45 pm #8262concerned-mumParticipant
Thank you so much for your support…Im new to this site and have battled stuff like this alone for nearly two years… …he is so nasty it seem to be getting worse not only for him but for me also…I really am starting to feel like he is wearing me down…I try to battle on and keep a brave face for my younger son but sometimes all i want to do is burst into tears
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April 13, 2014 at 11:35 pm #8264cant-take-no-moreParticipant
Im past that stage hunni….wish id known about this page a long time ago…….the strength I get form others keeps me going….I take myself off to another place (in my head) when it all gets ontop of me, and have learned to switch off….there is nothing I can say or do that will make him change….that is the hardest thing for any mother to hear and know….ITs up to them…dont get dragged down with it!!! xxxx
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