[jacks]

Wife of an addict alcohol and substance I feel so alone he talked out … I feel friends and family do not take me seriously but truth is they don’t understand … Have been with this man for 32 years 2 grown kids 2 grandchildren and still he drinks and shorts speed I really don’t want this for my grandkids … I see I his kids see it my family sees it soon my grandkids will too .. I no longer sleep with him I don’t share a bedroom with him we try to live separate life’s but even that don’t work .. I and his kids have asked him to get help over the years but he just won’t get help I don’t want to kick him out as he has nowhere to go … Over the years there has been anger and fights but I no longer got the strength left I’m tired and I no longer know what makes me happy ? Just thought expressing myself n here may help me a little xxxxx

[hox]

I’m the wife of a cocaine and alcohol abuser. I feel alone too. How can anyone understand what we are going through if they haven’t been through it themselves. Before this I would never have thought this could happen to anyone. I was naive. Mine is fourteen years with no children. No intimacy and he has no emotions left. My husband says he hasn’t got a problem, I suppose he hasn’t really because he is ok in his coke addled brain. Exhausted here, sorry to be of no use. Just to let you know you are now not alone.

[jacks]

Hi thank you for your reply I’m glad you don’t have no kids in your relationship its a killer to the soul… I’m so tired I can’t fight no more I just go along with things I think I’m Co addicted to the situation now as I can’t seem to change anything no more I hope you get to see the light xx it’s nice to know I’m not alone xx

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