[franticmum]

hi love, I think you already know what you should do, take your children and leave, harsh you may think but while he is using he is not the man you once knew and fell in love with, he says he wont be able to quit without you but is he making an effort to be clean with your support, No one can tell you what to do but please please think of your children, they have no say in this matter but im sure they will thank you one day for taking them away from this nightmare, I feel your pain and know what you are going through, its hard but you dont deserve to be treated this way, im not sure if I have been of any help but I know how I felt when someone replied to my plea, take care love and be strong
love Sue xxx

[kelly]

Hi, I am sorry you are going through such a nasty time brought about by someone you love who is battlign demons you can’t see. As harsh as it may be he is not going to change and your are just putting yourself and your children in jeopardy. My mother was the person you are married to and I wished there was someone who could take me out of it when I was a kid. I saw and handled things no child should have to go through. Your innocent children and your well being have to be your priority. It is a terribly diffcult position you are in and only people who have been there no what it takes to cut the tie. Maybe have him involutarily committed to a rehabilitation centre. This way he has a chance as at the moment he is putting your family in danger. The people he is involved with on the drug side are never nice individuals and it puts your kids at risk. Nobody ever wants their dirty laundry exposed for all to see. If he goes to a centre he has the professional support he needs and can get clean. If he goes downward again after that, you know you did your very best and he chose to throw it away. I am still battling with my mom now as an adult. It will not change so long as he feels there is nothing wrong. He doesn’t leave you much choice.

I wish you all my strength and hope,
Kelly

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