[debc]

Hi Pineapple123, welcome to this really helpful and friendly forum.

I only joined a few weeks ago, it’s so good to be able to talk to people that are in the same situation.

My Son is an addict (alcohol and cocaine), he has been to Rehab twice, and at the moment is doing really well, he has got himself a Sponsor, working the 12 step program for recovery, he does meetings every day through zoom.

For us the people that have to live with it, and have done for 10 years plus, it is hell.

Like you say it is a viscous circle, but only they can change it, if they want too.

There are so many people on here that have far more experience then me with dealing with an addict, but if you read through some of the other stories it gives you an insight into other people’s lives, and how they cope with living or being with an addict.

Take care

Dx

[lindyloo]

Hi all

Welcome to the forum Pineapple

I’ve been reading your post, just to let you know that you’re not alone in this. As Debc says, read the other threads too, you’ll get advice and support from others in the same or similar circumstances.

It is vicious cycle, and its very frustrating, and your emotions will be up and down constantly.

What I will say is, look after yourself first and foremost. Google out some 5min meditations, look into Mindfulness, take pleasure in the little things.

My son has restarted his online and face to face aa and ca meetings. So fingers crossed he won’t lapse again on payday.

Take care

Lx

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