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Hello this is my first time on any forum but my husband and I are at a loss as what to do or where to go for help.
Our son is 28 and a cocaine addict. We are not totally sure but we think for about 3 years. He lives at home after a bad relation ship breakdown.
It’s taken this long to get him to at least go out and hold down a job as he now suffers from anxiety, paranoia he doesn’t sleep proper or eat proper meals or even have a nice conversation with us any more.
we’ve moved house to try and help him come off the drug we sent him to rehab only to be chucked off the course, we’ve even paid his drug debts off which has cost thousands, we get pie crust promises all the time, I find small bags in his room which he virtually lives in, although he does have a nice girlfriend and he does socialise.
Tonight it came to a head for me he asked me to take him to get more drugs after having some during the day, I didn’t do it but his dad did which I think was wrong to do
All the time saying “its the last time I’ve no need to go out now I just need more to get me through the night” he has now been furloughed with this covid going on so he reckons he’ll sort himself out again but that’s been said and tried so many times before.
He knows how we/I feel about him taking the drug he knows it upsets/hurts us and he isn’t a bad person but when he’s on it he’s some one I don’t know or like.. We love him dearly but it’s tearing us apart.
Sorry if I’ve rambled but I really need to talk to someone.
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