[beth01]

That’s such a tough story Lauren. I’m so glad you’re out now. Remember you’re a queen and the next person who comes along needs to treat you like one xxx

[louise123]

Thankyou for your kind words that’s a lovely thing to say. The man has put me through hell and back he gets to move on with his life, but actually hes not moving on hes doing same thing hes always done. I feel sorry for this women because she does not know what’s coming, this man has Had thousands from me like your self, and left me in debt.

Only 6 weeks ago he contacted me declared his love for me yet again, made me all the promises in the world.

Luckily this time I was more guarded, but he got in my head. He wanted to see me so I did meet with him even with the advice of my solicitor not to. I needed to hear what he had to say, as he never gave me closure. He didn’t even know I was still pregnant he thought I had a termination, I couldnt go through with it as I was 24 weeks and when I went to see the consultant in London because I’m high risk, the procedure they have to do and because its baby I would of had to have sign papers for a burial I couldn’t do it. He new I was going to London he wouldn’t even stand by me like I said he completely turned his back on me. I remember sat in the hospital in london thinking what the hell has this man done to me. He is not the person I thought he was.

I made the decision then I did not love him anymore.

As far as I’m concerned he has no rights to this baby or my other children. It’s ok when you have no responsibility isn’t it. Xxx

[redfox20]

Hi Lauren, what a story and what a journey you have been through. You’re incredibly strong to have come out the other side and putting you and your children first, they are lucky to have you. You’ve done the right thing by walking away your mental health & well-being is paramount especially as a parent this was the main reason i walked away too. Stay strong, & good luck with the birth of your son. You’ve got this x

[louise123]

Thankyou so much I am due next week and I’m so excited to becoming a mother again especially to this child, this baby will have all the love and attention it will ever need from me, we do not need someone like that in our lives. I realise that now. This man has taken so much from me but one thing he will never have is these children. He missed out on 3 children soon to be 4 children because of his addiction. I never left the children with him because I was always worried incase he was drunk and what kind of person would that make me leaving my children with someone like that. My children are my life and I will always put them first. At the same time I’m so sad its come to this, I never deserved what happened to me i never asked for it and i felt i was weak in letting someone manipulate me in that way for years. I just now feel used. Now I know this man is not capable of love. I was never his first love alcohol/drugs was. Xx

[redfox20]

Exciting times ahead for you. You have done all you can it’s he’s problem not yours. It feels so good to finally come to that realisation doesn’t it but painful too it will take time to heal. You are not weak you loved him and wanted him to be there for you and your children, he let you down and it’s he’s weakness to turn to drugs. They will always put drugs first until they see a way out or want to change nothing will stop it. You’re doing the right thing keeping them safe, and you take care of yourself too! X

[esta]

Karma – correct it repays

And you deserve the biggest repayment of kindness and love

Not much comfort for being on the receiving end of such betrayal I know but honestly you are so strong

[louise123]

Thankyou for saying all that, I am getting there I have a good therapist that has helped me alot over the last few months. You never think this will happen to you but when it does and you cant see it until it’s to late, the feeling of betrayal and everything you have done for that person and how you let them is unbelievable. I feel like I’ve been stabbed and stabbed over again in the heart. While your suffering and having to deal with being pregnant and all these extra emotions floating around they are just out down the pub not a care in the world. I sold my pram a week ago as I bought a brand new one and he only wanted half the money for it because he contributed to it, one thing he ever helped pay for, I nearly gave it to him until someone talked some sense into me, I didnt want the money so I gave it to a charity xxx.

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