[christycrisis1]

Hi everyone,

My dad finally went into a and e after a a few weeks of a downward spiral and two seizures. He wouldn’t accept help at first and it took a lot of persuasion (4 nurses and a mental health professional) to finally get him to hospital.

He’s been drinking every single night for the past 30+ years which I found ‘normal’ but now I look back I know it isn’t. I also want to be there emotionally for my mum and sister who have had to put up with this for too long. I’m struggling because I don’t know what steps to take next, is it my responsibility to help? Should I put myself first? Does he need to go to a rehab centre in order to give my mum and sister a break?

Thanks

[lindyloo]

Hi Christy, welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing your story.

So sorry to hear about your dad’s addiction and how it’s affecting you and the family. Such a lot for you to cope with if you’re also supporting your mum and sister. I wish I had all the answers for you.

The adfam homepage have counselling support as do the Icarus trust, and Drugfam.

Please take care of your own health and mental well-being at this stressful time. Find time for you. ❤️

Lx

[334]

Hey,

I can relate to this so much.

My dad’s been drinking aslong as I can remember (I’m 31). He has chirrosis, seizures, can hardly walk plus lots of other things but still wants to drink.

I feel bad for my mum who has to basically be his carer because of the drink. One minute I feel angry at him and want to never see him again but then I feel guilty the next minute.

I hope your dad gets better and hope you, your mum and sister get the help and break you all need.

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