My advice is that he needs to give up drinking. A huge task I know but this is what leads him to it.
I have kidded myself for years but I stopped drinking and therefore the other. I realised it too late. I’ve lost my wife and consider myself lucky to still see my children.
He needs to change his lifestyle which is a massive thing to do I know.
Thank you and yeah I know I just find it hard to talk to him about it now he just seems so happy with me to get it and when he’s high but then he can be so horrible when he’s coming down. I just want him to be happy.