[lilytarantino]

Hello,

First of all, thank you to anyone who might be reading this, I come here for advice.

My boyfriend of 22 smokes weed multiple times a day (this he says he does in order to not get drunk every day and wake up with a hangover to work) and uses different recreational drugs most weekends with his mates, such as acid, MDMA, Ketamine and cocaine. Cocaine is his favorite, but he has stopped using it as much because I hate it when he does. He drinks a lot too.

When he was 18 to 20 he would do cocaine every weekend form Thursday to Sunday. Even selling at parties and taking up to 6 grams. At this point he has calmed down a lot, but every time he gets drunk he wants more and seems to get a craving for coke. I’ve told him that if he took it again I would leave, because I cannot stand him doing it, it gives me terrible anxiety and anger.This was 2 months ago and he has done it 3 times that I know of since, I have told him again that he needs to change, that I can’t stay like this.

He says that it isn’t a problem and he can stop anytime and say no when his friends do it (which he has done before and thats great). But he wants no help, not even from family.And he doesn’t want to delete his dealers numbers either. I don’t know what to do here, mostly because I don’t know where the line is between drugs for fun and drugs because he needs them. I also feel like I should inform his mum because I am worried and she knows nothing about it.

Please help me, any advice will be a life savior.

Thanks!

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