[penguin]

Hi Lucy,

I don’t have any answers or advice I’m afraid, I just wanted to say your post resonated with me. The arsehole mode is real and like you said, you can see it coming, like something shifts behind the eyes?

I’m at the end now with the verbal abuse, the draining cycle of loving sobriety followed by days lost due to alcohol and self destruction.

I hope you find a way to help him, as I continue to try to do for my husband. I just wanted you to know you’re not alone in this feeling.

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