[reuth]

Hello everyone

My partner is a cocaine addict and won’t admit it. He seems to go on a bender when he goes out with his mates to the football, disappearing for hours and sometimes not coming home until the next day. His sex drive goes through the roof and I’ve had my suspicions about him cheating. I did the unthinkable today and checked messages on his apple watch, he was at football Sunday and didn’t come home until the next morning, I was away Monday to meet a friend. Turns out while I was away he was messaging escorts looking to pay for sex and asking them to get coke that he would pay for. I confronted him today and basically he has denied it, saying I’m a liar and crazy and told me to leave saying our relationship is over.

I have confronted him before about his cocaine use because I have caught him in the act before but he said that it wasn’t a problem and only used it now and again, it is now becoming more and more frequent, losing days because all he wants to do is sleep.

I love him so much and want to help him even though the cheating with sex workers has devastated me. He is so angry with me and has turned it back on me by asking me to leave.

I’m at my wits end and don’t know what to do to help him and don’t want to involve family.

Any advice would be welcome. Thankyou.

[icarus-trust]

Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry that your partner’s cocaine addiction is making things so difficult for you. If you would like to talk with someone who would understand what you are going through, please contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that offers help and support to people like you who are dealing with addiction in their family. We have specially trained people we call Family Friends who you could speak with if you get in touch. Talking with one of them may help you to work out what to do next.

You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org

All the best to you.

[reuth]

Thank you so much for your reply, I will get in touch

[husssamr]

Sex and cocaine is a dangerous combination, that is something you should know, when he on a Hang over, cook him a Dinner and go for relaxing walks let him know what he missing …change of activities …try different strategies, you need to change the chemical in the brain

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