Hi,
Thanks for sharing your story. Sorry that things are hard for you right now, as well as your son.
I’m glad that he is going to speak to his councillor, but maybe you could do with some help for yourself. At Icarus Trust we offer support for people who are dealing with a family member’s addiction. If you think that it would be helpful please get in touch. We can put you in contact with one of our trained and experienced people who would understand what you are living with. Talking with one of them might be of some help to you.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this is helpful. All the best.