[navy]

Hello Lizzie

im so sorry to read your heartache, especially with a beautiful little girl who loves her daddy. This must be so difficult for you.  You also should be so proud of yourself having the courage to walk away and get help for yourself, which in turn has helped him along the way.
no wonder your suffering with anxiety, have you been to the doctor for help or a therapist to talk too as you have been through a traumatic experience. You sound like a strong woman dig deep to find her again and remember your not at fault, you are amazing. You need to put yourself first so you can look after your little girl.

I do hope that rehab is working for him and he realises what he put you both through.
Are you in touch with his family to find out how he is doing.

remeber you and your little girl comes first, look after yourself, stay strong and true to yourself

thinking of you

navy xx

[tarab]

So sorry to hear this Lizzie

how are you and your daughter doing now ? I hope you are cooking day by day ?
also how is your partner doing in rehab ?

I asked my husband to leave 10 weeks ago and He is the same and getting worse we have 3 children and together 20 years he said we are over and is continuing to take drugs I have asked him to get help and I hope he does it’s heart breaking

I hope you can get something to help the anxiety I had to the first few weeks I hope your hubby can get better and your children won’t remember this

take care and let me know how you are x

[tarab]

I meant to say taking things day by day not cooking

[Lozzy80]

<p style=”text-align: left;”>Wow Lizzie you are so so strong. The road ahead will be tough in terms of keeping your resolve and not take him back… Sorry I am saying this without knowing anything other than what you have shared here but it’s highly likely your partner will try to win you back…try not to feel sorry for him or think its only you who can save him, you cannot. They can only do this themselves and its the most horrendous agonising heart wrenching thing for us to have to walk away whilst they self destruct.</p>
I really hope your ex makes a full recovery, but please continue as you are putting you and your daughter first at all times. If you ever feel yourself slipping back don’t worry talk to your friends and family, I so wish I could be as open with mine but sadly they take a very strict view so I’ve kept my husbands cocaine addiction hidden for years… I did leave him but I took him back, whilst there’s been some good times it’s slowly spiralled back to the bad times and I regret my decision so much now. So please, take it from me, you are doing the absolutely right thing xx

 

 

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