[conor-l]

This is new to me ,struggling big time with addiction

[lindyloo]

Hi Conor, welcome to the forum. Most people here have a loved one with addiction, people in recovery and people like yourself looking for support and advice.

You have already taken a step to recovery by admitting that your addiction is taking over- this in itself is a big step!

My son is 29yr and has alcohol and cocaine addictions, ( the alcohol triggers the need for cocaine).

He’s been addicted for 10+ years. We as a family, have been through a living hell.

Thankfully 18 months ago, it came to a head, and we said we’d support him as he was like yourself- struggling. Up to his eyes in debt, about to lose his job, flat, car, his family. His physical and mental health was suffering in a big way.

We agreed to help him with some of the debt, and compiled the rest which he paid back monthly.

He joined AA and CA meetings online and face to face. He got a sponsor, did the 12 step program and got clean. These fellowship guys are so supportive and understanding. Don’t get me wrong, it’s been a battle and he had a couple of relapses along the way. But I’m pleased to say he’s currently 11months clean.

Read Danman83 and Jamesb posts here, they are guys who post here and are in early recovery offering support and advice too

There’s help out there Conor, if you’re willing to take it.

I’m sure you’re a lovely lad, but this addiction is taking over your life.

Please seek help and support asap, let someone close know that you’re not okay.

Stay strong, only you can make this happen Conor.

Lx ❤️

[sc0722]

Hi Conor,

I can really relate to your post. I can only imagine that you had just finished your weekends antics and the anxiety hit you.

I was in a very similar situation myself. Currently feel horrible and i was looking online for some comfort. I came across your message and it really did hit home that you probably posted this at your worst point.

I really hope your ok and want you to know i am here if you want to chat about it.

X

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