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I’ve been with my partner for 5 years.

I didn’t realise when we first met he was an addict to cocaine.

So to cut the story short he’s now decided to get help. Now I’ve asked him to leave our home.

He goes to the shop and then he’s gone for the night. No answer from him at all when I call or text. Then the next day comes back with his tail between his legs.

In the past I’ve fallen into the trap of apologies etc but lately I just can’t deal with the whole situation.

I’ve drove him to therapy, I’ve made the phone calls. I’ve pushed him to make the first steps and then he relapses.

I know he will relapse and I except that. I can not except the lies and the messages to other woman. I have lost myself trying to help him but now I am at the point I have to find myself because I’ve fallen too far.

Please tell me where I am going wrong.

[esta]

You will heal

There will be times of great sadness, tears and grief as you Let it all go and learn to live again

learn to love life and yourself again

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Hi Aries,

Welcome to the Forum.

You are doing nothing wrong, never blame yourself.

Look after you, life will get better with time.

Take care.

Dx

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