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Hello

I’ve just found this group and am a bit nervous about posting but I really need some help

I knew when I met my partner he liked a drink but we’re at the full blown can’t live without it stage. It seemed to creep up all of a sudden and now he hides it, he can’t wait for a drink first thing in a morning and when I finish work he’s almost always drunk. Don’t get me wrong he’s not violent but it’s like mental torture, he can’t remember anything, he doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong and I don’t think he cares about me anymore. I don’t know if it’s just the drink but he has no interest in talking, it just ends in an argument. In the lucid moments he knows he has a problem but despite what it’s doing to me he can’t stop. He has a female friend who’s also a drinker, why do people enable it when they’re supposed to be friends

I’m now at the point of leaving but feel guilty, but what’s the alternative. All advice welcome and thank you

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