[lindyloo]

Hi

I read your story im so sorry to hear that you’ve had such a tough time with your partner.

It sounds to me like he’s in denial that he has an addiction problem. He has to be the one who decides that he has to do something or he’ll lose everything.

Addicts are very selfish and the drugs make then insensitive to hurting those closest to them.

We’ve been through this many times with my adult son. He’s has an alcohol addiction and sometimes uses cocaine too. He’s holding down a good job, but as soon as he’s paid, he keeps relapsing then comes running to us when he’s skint. It’s very exhausting and creates a horrible atmosphere in the house.

I would seek as much help and advice from others in your situation, and know that you’re not alone. You are stronger than you think. Take care I wish you well. Lx

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